Your hot girl summer is approaching, but you are still not certain what are the steps to be irresistible? Of course, we are in 2021, why would you need some universal tips everyone will use and know? Well, maybe something will surprise you, or you’ll just get a new inspo for a self-care step in becoming your baddest of the baddest this summer. If a boy likes you, and you want to show him that you are interested, be your glorious self, but don’t be the ice queen (at least not forever). There are some beauty secrets to make a guy’s Heart melt. Just try a tiny bit and read the next lines. Stay tuned.
Not trying to be rude – basic hygiene is a must.
Yes, you shower every day, but do you soap your feet? Like, really scrub those down. Exfoliate those heels until they glow. Scrub all sweaty places, and at least twice a week do a body peeling (mix of coffee and honey is a good organic peeling). Wash your face, wash your teeth, do a bath once in a while to pamper and soak yourself. Don’t we all love hugging and touching freshly, soapy-smelling people? These things can add beauty to your appearance.
Soft to the touch
Moisturize. Every day. Or every other. Do not miss this. Choose something yummy smelling – vanilla, cocoa, coconut, or raspberry. Or choose something that goes with your perfume, or without smell so as not to interfere with your perfume. The important moment is to feel and look soft – no, not talking about hair, just about your skin. Maybe even use bath oils, or shower creams to lock in moisture in your beautiful skin.
Keep your body hair routine up!
Whether you like it natural, partially hairy, or no hair at all, there are some basic rules for your beauty you need to know about each option. Natural body hair should be moisturized, and on the particularly bushy areas try using a conditioner to make those soft to the touch – it’ll feel nicer and complement your confidence. If you remove hair from multiple body parts, do weekly peelings on the parts you are removing hair from. Do it to remove dead skin cells and avoid strawberry skin or ingrown hair. There is sugar wax as a safer option to avoid ingrown hairs, and the option which lasts the longest is laser hair removal. Choose a method and a body hair routine up to your standards, just be confident about your skin!
Smell like Rihanna – the best!
Multiple celebrities agree that Rihanna smells good – and her secret is the expensive, but sweet Killian perfume. If queen Ri wears a sweet scent, shouldn’t we all try it? Either way, the secret to finding a perfect perfume is to try it out. Each oil reacts differently to each skin, therefore spritz it and let it sit for a few hours before making a final decision. When you determine your smell, the way you want to present yourself in the world, you will be irresistible to the guys (and the girls alike).
Choose the best hairstyle and color
It is not a secret that men love woman’s hair and they consider it as a sign of beauty. But when we enter puberty, it starts to be a game of change, the quest to find the hairstyle and, after some time, to turn it up. Try not to reach up for that box dye, if you can (but haven’t we all at some point?). There are better alternatives in 2021 for hair coloring. Professional hair coloring products are way safer for your hair, but the safest options available are available at the revolutionary organic hair salon. This chemical-free salon has dyes that will minimally harm your hair – they cover gray hair effectively, last two times longer than the normal hair dye (W.H.A.T.), and, most importantly, still give you a safe space to express your gorgeous authentic self. A girl’s gorg mane is what certainly attracts a guy’s eyes.
Rock your makeup and style
When you feel and look like the divine being that you are, play some more! Celebrate your wonderful body while emphasizing it in your favorite colors for the day, carrying only one of the options which wrap your body in self-expression. Each outfit can look completely different with accessories, so don’t forget your bling-bling. A guy’s heart can melt for a dress, pants and a shirt, or a smart suit, but the way you stroll, feeling comfortably confident in your outfit will make that guy lose his mind for a while.
Show your hobbies
Do not be afraid to show your hobbies to the world. The way you look, the way you dress, are only parts of you. What you do, however, is the essence that makes you – you. Your career, your interest in music, books, sport, dance, philosophy, food, everything matters. If you do social media, or modeling, if you are a nurse, or if you work in pre-school, every career has its own interesting details and shapes your everyday life. Even that ring that you are touching right now has a role in your hobbies and taste. A perfect conversation starter if you ask us!
Art of communication – a killer smile
Communication is the one skill that keeps the interest of the other participants in you. The first piece of advice would be, to be honest. If you do have a word, say it, be opinionated and knowledgeable. If you don’t but are interested, say it. Ask for an explanation or a story about a topic in question. Some of us are shy and do not know how to show that we are interested, or do not dare to speak up. It is all right, be your shy self. Just look at the person speaking and try to show with your non-verbal language that you are following the conversation. Active listening – listening, showing an interest, and asking for more information, is what will certainly show that you want the dialogue (or polylogue) to continue. If you are the one speaking, look at the person you are talking to, or switch from one to the other. Sometimes it is hard to look at the eyes, then try looking at their ears or forehead – your head would be in the corresponding position, and you’ll feel safer to speak.
The last piece of advice would be the same as the introduction – take care of yourself, be yourself, and do not forget about the people around you. A friendly attitude will keep the guy and the convo – you’ll get his heart!