It sounds almost harrowing, doesn’t it? Going to a retirement home. But it really shouldn’t! Why? Because retirement homes are nowhere near the unbefitting cliché they have been assigned.
Living in a retirement home is all about your own frame of mind. Looking at the subject and acting as though it is the end of your life is definitely not the way to go about it! You need a way to reframe your mind to see it for what it truly is! An experience!
Ask any person between the age of 18-30 if they would like to live in a home where they are surrounded by potential friends, no responsibilities and have all the time they could want to do whatever it is that they want to and you will be sure to get a fairly large amount of people asking “Where do I sign up?”.
Perhaps it is the name “retirement home” that sounds so horrible. Whatever it may be to you, here are a few reasons you may very much benefit from moving into a retirement home.
The biggest and easiest reasoning to pull out of the magician’s bag of tricks is the fact that you will have MUCH more company should you want it. There will always be someone to talk to when you need a friend and there will always be people who genuinely care about your stories.
Why is this such a big deal? Because although they do not mean to do it, family often get caught up in their day-to-day lives and forget that you may need someone to talk to and share your many years of built up wisdom.
Though no one can truly replace the company of your family, having people around you with similar interests, and in a common situation will provide you the reassurance that you are not alone.
If you are a home owner, this will certainly apply to you. You may have children who are beginning a life of their own and may want a family someday. More often than not, people prefer to leave their home to their children, rather than have it sold or otherwise after their passing.
Something a lot of retirees like to do is to move into a retirement home with the satisfaction of knowing their children are okay. Leaving them your home could be the best way for you to gain closure before the inevitable trek to the other side.
Do you know how difficult maintaining your own home is? It’s mental oftentimes and it never seems to end. With all the washing, cleaning, dusting fixing, gardening, cooking, etc. It can become chaotic enough to make your head spin.
Why not have someone do all those things for you? Why not move somewhere that you never have to do any of those things again? Somewhere you can sleep in as long as you want, go to bed knowing there is nothing you NEED to do immediately and wake up knowing your day ahead will be relaxing.
The relaxing side of retirement can often become scary in itself, as many retirees find that settling in to a new lifestyle without work every day and a career to build is quite the cultural shock at first.
Learning to relax and not worry about all the things that have trialled you over your lifetime is something you can always benefit from. A retirement home is exactly where you can find that.
Once you reach that certain stage in life, it becomes much more comforting to know that someone is there for you, should the need arise for you to rely on someone’s help to do anything from saving your life to opening a pickle jar.
Moving into a retirement home will give you the reassurance that you will not face anything alone without someone at your immediate side who can help you; whatever that need may be.
Ensuring your safety is a massive priority when considering how you will spend your retirement years. Your family will thank you for making sure that you aren’t going to perish too early or have a hard time doing anything in day-to day life and so will you!
Moving into a retirement home can be intimidating, if not downright scary at first. The best way to clear this feeling is to realise that the stereotype of retirement homes being boring places filled with sad people is simply not true.
Enjoying yourself in a retirement home is easy and with the right frame of mind, you can take advantage of the great amenities you will be provided with at the home. A retirement home is not somewhere you go to wait out the inevitable. It is a place you go when you want to spend the remainder of your time in peace and serenity.